We match for you dating workaholic
Which relationship do you think has a stronger chance of survival? In movies and romance novels, love is this grand, all-consuming force that takes you over in the most dramatic of ways.There are huge obstacles to overcome, but it’s okay because love conquers all!
If you can internalize this, it will change the way you date forever.
I mean, would any of us have cared for “The Notebook” if Ali and Noah were of the same social status, went on a few lukewarm dates, then got to know each other and developed a deepening connection over time? I hate to do this to you, but I’m gonna take the romance right out of those dramatic relationships where you get engulfed in your feelings for the other person.
In most cases, the pull we feel to another person is guided by our unconscious desire to rectify some issue from our past.
On a conscious level, you may assess the things he said, on an unconscious level, you’re looking at his body language, his tone, the way he phrases things, how much eye contact he makes, his demeanor.
If your unconscious finds something familiar in that person, something that reminds you of an unresolved hurt from the past, it will light up and push you towards that person.